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We see that in the West, for example, that the standard of the family, which was inviolable up until the 1780s, the standard of the family is going through enormous transition, and the family order is breaking down, the bargain is breaking down. One of the byproducts of that is, for example, the legalities now that are directly connected to marriages, prenuptial agreements, all kinds of things that are written down legally because the basic bargain has deteriorated.

西方社会，“家庭标准”直到1780年前都神圣不可侵犯，但如今它正在经历巨大的转型，家庭秩序正在走向瓦解，家庭的（互利）议价体制正在崩解。基本的议价体制的恶化，所带来的副产品例如，与婚姻直接相关的法律法规、婚前协议，或各种相关的东西，都被写进了法律。

So what we're seeing here in the third stage is that the moment that we get out of the wave—after all, that's the only reason the bargain is there. I hope you get that. The only reason that the bargain is there is because there is a wave in the emotional system, and the bargain is an attempt to fix the wave. The bargain says, "Okay, here's our deal, this and this for this and this. That's it." It's an attempt to fix that wave.

因此，我们在这个第三阶段看到的是，当我们脱离情绪波的时刻——毕竟，那就是议价/讨价还价会出现的唯一原因。我希望你们明白这一点，议价体制会出现的唯一原因就是，情绪系统有周期的运作，而议价的目的就是试图处理那“波动”。议价说：“好的，这是我们的协议，拿A和B，来换C和D。就这样吧。”这是尝试要处理那情绪波动的行为。

Anybody who deals with 40/37s, though, knows that because they're in a wave that the bargain can take on different perspectives, the bargain can look like it's changed, and it can feel like it's changed. In other words, this is an ongoing process that we saw with the Root Gates moving up, trying to fix the Emotional Center, and the 40th Gate moving down, trying to fix the Emotional Center, fix the bargain. "Here's the deal, whether you're up or down, here's the deal." Now, of course, as long as there's the motor wave that's practically impossible because the motor is so powerful.

任何与40/37打交道的人都知道，由于这些人处在情绪波动当中，因此议价会呈现多种不同的观点，使得讨价还价看起来好像改变了、感觉起来好像改变了。换句话说，这是个持续在进行的过程，我们看见根部中心的闸门试着要固定情绪中心，也看见40号闸门试着要固定情绪中心，固定那议价。“协议就是这样，不论你是在情绪波的高点还低点，协议就是这样。”当然，只要这个波动的动力仍在，这就不可能做到，因为情绪动力是如此强大。

So one of the most essential things about the future of bonding is the elimination of the need for a bargain. It's not about, "If I do this, you do that." It's not about, "If I love you this much, you have to love me that much." It's not about all the bargains that have been built into our relationship with the other. "You're a good neighbor, if..." It's all these bargains that are inherent, and the bargain is going to disappear.

因此，未来的关系连结，最关键的事情之一就是消除议价的需要。不是关于“如果我做这个，你就要做那个。”不是关于“如果我爱你这么多，你就要爱我那么多。”爱，不是一个互利方案，不是关于那些加诸在我们与他人关系中的各种议价。“你是一个好邻居，如果……”，所有那些与生俱来的议价，全都会消失。

As long as we have an emotional wave, everything connected to the Solar Plexus Center is always trying to control that wave. It's always trying to fix that wave. It's always trying to get it to a point that it won't go up and down and away from some point that can be consistent. So the moment we have this transformation, that's an incredible thing because that's the moment that the way in which community meets each other that they can meet each other without having the distortion of the wave, or the need to follow emotional authority.

只要我们还有情绪波，每一个与情绪中心连接的元素都总会试图控制那波动，都总是试图让波动固定下来，让波动不再上下起伏、达到某种一致的状态。因此，当这种转变出现的那一刻，会是非常不可思议的事情，因为届时人们彼此相遇，不会再受到波动的影响，也不需要再遵循情绪权威。

This is one of the basic transformations that takes place. Those beings who will come into the world, and this afternoon and I will show you what they look like, not everyone is going to carry that mutation. And it means that there are still going to be those that are caught up in the wave, and in being caught up in the wave have enormous difficulties being able to find a fixed way to relate to each other. You're going to have a whole new group of beings that don't have that bargain, that don't operate out of that, and no longer are subject to emotional authority, which is, as we know, waiting out the wave.

这是将要发生的基本转变之一。这些将来到这世界上的人——今天下午我会描述他们看起来是什么模样。但并不是每个人都会带有那样的突变，而这意味着有些人还是会带有情绪波的运作，因此他们会很难找到一个固定的方式与他人连结。我们会看到一群新的人类，他们没有议价这种操作，不再通过议价来运作，他们不再受到情绪权威的主宰，不再需要等待情绪波的周期。

摘录自《2027年的突变》（The 2027 Mutation Lecture）

译者：可林Corinne

时间：2023年1月28日

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